Since my child went to kindergarten, I have been encouraged to have two children in the past two years:
Community neighbor: “xuan xuan all 6 years old, you can want again, gather together a ‘good’ word, now policy allow of, unlike us at that time.”
Best friend Lily: “Look at our little sister, you can’t fall behind oh?”
Kid grandma: “daughter, xuan xuan all big, 35 years old before again want one?”
The child’s grandmother: “Xuan Xuan went to school, I also didn’t have what matter at home, while I still can help, or another one?”
Dad: “I think Mom has a point, but I respect your opinion.”
Today I would like to tell you when to have a second child?How old is the difference between a second child?
Generally speaking, it is better to have a second child between 18 months and 5 years after the birth of the first child.
Because mothers need time to recover after the first birth, postponing the thought of having a second child can reduce fertility risks.
But the interval shouldn’t be too long, since studies have found that if you wait more than five years to conceive, the risk of childbirth also increases.
Of course, the above is just a general reference time, specific to each mother, according to the individual situation to evaluate.
For example, if you are older than 35 years old, you will have an increased risk of birth. You can consult an obstetrician’s advice and shorten the time interval appropriately to prepare for a second child.
Second child age difference how many years good?
1-2 years old, pain and happiness
I admire these mothers personally, this is what we often say “three years of holding two”.
Not a whole understand, and came a, someone to help with a little better, no one to help, the mother will be very breakdown, in order to meet the second eat and drink and spread outside, but also spend the same amount of time or even more to the eldest brother.
When the second child is born, the first child may not be able to eat or sleep independently. For the parents, it means endless feeding, feeding, sleeping, changing diapers and washing clothes.
Having two children at the same time can be a challenge, especially when it comes to education and the financial strain on the family.
Bestie Lily’s two baby difference of 1 year old 8 months, how to describe?It is not too much to say that “chickens fly and dogs jump”.
Every day rob toys, rob food, rob mother, mother hold the second, eldest son eagerly pull clothes also want to hug.
According to psychologist Fran Walfish, the age of two is the most difficult period for children to accept their second child. Although older children are not jealous yet, they can be very possessive of their mother.
The oldest’s mischief is learned in two minutes;The cleverness of the second brother is copied by the first brother whenever and wherever possible.