Have heard such a sentence, “fish swimming in the water, but forget the water;Birds fly in the wind, but they don’t know the wind.”In the words of the birds and fish, is not very like the preference when we have no fear to rely on?
Some people, the more we get used to their good, the more easily we forget their good.When it becomes a habit to enjoy being loved, you subconsciously feel that you deserve all the love you have.But actually?If someone gives you a passion because they think you deserve it, you should also let them know that they deserve it.
A heart is like boiling water on a stove. It needs more wood and fire to keep it hot.If left to die, the water will eventually turn cold.
Think of the movie “Trouble Charlotte”, has always been the wife Ma Dongmei to give, and her husband Charlotte is only responsible for being loved.Charlotte’s heart was always full of the object of her love when she was a child, but she was very unhappy with her wife.
One day, he travels back in time, marries the girl he loves, and becomes a famous singer.But even with all he had wanted, he still felt he was missing something, lonely and boring.It was not until he saw Ma Dongmei, who was married to someone else, and ate the bowl of noodles with familiar taste that he finally sighed with emotion: “The first time you cooked, you cooked fennel and marinated noodles for me. You said that the taste of fennel would make me think about you more when I get tired of you in the future.”
Charlotte was lucky to be able to cherish her dream.But for the reality of us, a lot of people missed it is really hard to recover.Every little bit of disappointment will cool people’s hearts, the real leave behind must pile up countless grievances.
Don’t trample on what others have done for you, and don’t forget that there is no point in regretting late.
I have seen such a story.There is a child playing in the mountain, accidentally shouted a “feed”, as a result from all directions came the “feed” echo.He wanted to know who was talking to him, so he kept asking, “Who are you?””Where are you?”No doubt the boy got the same reply from the valley every time.
Angry, the boy yelled again, “I hate you,” and all over the hills came the same voice: “I hate you…”The child immediately felt wronged and angry, ran home to tell his mother, mother told him: “this time, you go back to the mountains to shout ‘I love you’, see what will happen.”
The child followed his mother’s words and ran back up the hill. Sure enough, the whole world came up with “I love you”.
Isn’t it just like children and mountains that people get along with each other?If you would open the door of another’s heart, open your own.A relationship, has always been you respect me seven points, I also you very, have to go to a long time.
If someone treats you well, you won’t know how precious it is until you enter your heart.When you respond to others, it takes heart to show sincerity.
A single effort is like a pebble dropped into a lake, with no trace but a few ripples.Such indifference is most hurtful.
A young couple, five years into their marriage, had a marital crisis.Do not know from what time, between the two people gradually lost the love when they were newly married, just plain life.Finally one day, the husband tired of this life, asked for a divorce.The wife did not say much, but silently packed up and moved out the same day.
Before long, one day her husband stayed up late at night, and when he came home, he found that there was not a sound in the house. It seemed that he was the only one in the world. It was terribly quiet.After tossing and turning all night, he rushed out of his house early the next morning to look for his lost wife.
Those who treat you well are like your shadow, always watching over your shoulder.But if you never look back, no one will always be waiting for you.The most afraid of feelings is that I pay you all turn a blind eye, my heart you always perfunctory.
Love while the favor is yours, and while all the feedback is still there.