Living for yourself, it’s important to set aside enough time for yourself to do things that you enjoy and that are meaningful to you.
There is a real gap between people.
Some people talk and talk about nothing but street gossip and celebrity gossip.
Some people are confined to the family, open their mouths and do not leave their husbands, children, market prices;
Some people do not, look at space, look at planning and aesthetics;Watching movies, genre analysis and cultural analysis come easily.
A random topic, an extension of the people the person loved, the books he read and the road he walked.
The gap has not been opened up at once, but slowly.
The brilliance in front of people is the result of active learning in countless spare time.
It is not unreasonable for Gorky to call society “my university”.
Out of school, we still need to learn, different from before, but the lack of school assessment system.
Be willing to spend time on yourself, take the opportunity to improve yourself and learn, so that the next time you show up, you’ll have a plaque you’re proud of.
Children are not in the way
My mother always said to me, “If it weren’t for you, I….”
She is the epitome of most Chinese mothers, who treat their children as a lifelong career and always sacrifice for their children’s growth.
Children are the biggest obstacle to a woman’s freedom to be herself.
Especially before the age of 10, is a child to develop the ability to express, build confidence in the key period.Many mothers feel that their children can’t live without them.Especially if the child is too dull outside:
At home is a small chatterbox, out of the second silent;
3, Usually eloquent, playing “ninja” outside;
They sang and danced at home, but they were always in the school play…
Generally speaking, children with strong expressive ability can not only speak, but also have more outstanding comprehension, logical thinking and judgment abilities than their peers.
Mothers’ anxiety is understandable.
Most of the troubles in the world, however, are due to lack of understanding.
Children’s hands-on skills can be developed in the company of parents.
But language is such a big system that parents can’t teach it if they want to.No amount of sacrifice may be productive.
It’s better to free yourself and let professional people do professional things, which is the best help for children.
To live for yourself is actually not so difficult, to live as a shining person, is not so difficult.
No matter what age, we have the right to say loudly: “Boring life, I will die.”