A week ago, dai zhiyi, 40, was among his classmates at WeChat when he saw hui, who used to live in the upper bunk, Posting a photo of his graduation dormitory.At that time, Dai Zhiyi looked very green, but could not cover the mouth of the smile.Under the photo, Hui posted a poem from The North Island saying, “At that time, we had a dream, about literature, about love, about traveling across the world.” He also wrote a special message to Dai Zhiyi.
Now when we drink late at night and the glasses touch, it’s the sound of broken dreams.Dai zhiyi quickly read the second sentence in his mind, but after thinking about it, in the WeChat group typed the word is, “now I am only a worker”, which quickly received a warm response, “+1”, “we are all workers”, the crowd burst into laughter.
“Good morning, migrant worker” has become the most common greeting among young people in 2020.Just 5 words, reflected in the way of life of workers, contains three points funny and five points ridicule, there are two points is helpless, after all, the hardships of adults, how many people are gritted teeth, laugh in the past.
It took Dai Zhiyi 13 years to go from clerk to department director.In the last two years, he has become increasingly anxious.Changes in the industry environment and technology have brought about the need for continuous learning to keep up with The Times, as well as KPI assessment, interpersonal relationship and competition among colleagues…Dai Zhiyi often felt confident and relaxed before life and work ceased, and began to appear spiritual decadence, insomnia, depression and other negative states.
Us psychologist Christopher Cotman defines anxiety this way: Anxiety = concern + threat.But with the emergence of the “migrant worker”, Dai Zhiyi thought, in the day is willing to be a bird, in the ground for the migrant worker, “migrant worker” self-mockery, not only out of recognition of the facts after the relief, but also out of “see the truth of life still love life” heroism.
While there is an element of self-mockery among workers in the face of job and financial pressures, it is not all negative.In humor and self-mockery, people can often release and dissolve the pressure, and because of the existence of network group, achieve the effect of social connection, in the group empathy, the weight of anxiety will be greatly reduced.
Now Dai Zhiyi every day to go to the company, has long been no longer in his heart to say “I want to go to work”, but frankly said, “workers to move bricks”.
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